Archive for the ‘Blog – Spiritually Incorrect’ Category

Why Her? Why Him? On Soul Mates and Soul Matters

Posted on: March 4th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Why do you fall in love with Jack and not Tom; with Sally and not Amanda? The last stage in our understanding the perception of falling in love is the personal question: Why him or why her? Whom you marry is an enormously influential factor in the na ...

Falling in love: Part Thirty: Marc Gafni

Posted on: March 1st, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Running and Returning This movement — what the mystics called “running and returning” — is the core dance of the sexual. Here again, the sexual models the erotic. The cherubs hold each other. The passionately intertwined cherubs, symbols of t ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Nine: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 28th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 3 Comments

Posted by Dr. Marc Gafni assistant Drunk With Fire This balance between ecstatic and normative, between in and out of love reflects a deeper ebb and flow within us. There are two forces which vie for domination in our lives. Each one must be honored. ...

Drunk with Fire: Falling in Love: Part Twenty Eight: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 27th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

Drunk With Fire This balance between ecstatic and normative, between in and out of love reflects a deeper ebb and flow within us. There are two forces which vie for domination in our lives. Each one must be honored. They are our wild ecstatic, sensuo ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Seven: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 26th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Through the Thou a person becomes I. —Martin Buber, I and Thou The philosopher who guides us on this path most clearly is Martin Buber. He talks in terms of what he calls “dialogic thinking.” Put simply, that means that there must be an I and a ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Six: The Wonder of the the Law: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 25th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Dedicated to the Law, the way, Halacho and to Chief Justices wherever they might be… One of the great moments of ecstasy in modernity was the drug culture of the sixties. While the culture has faded and we are left with drugs as just one more f ...

“Let Go of My Ego”: Falling in Love: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 24th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Ecstasy undermines our sense of ego and personhood. On one level, that is terrific. It is the gate to the shared identity of intimacy. Moreover, it is the healing of the original sin of misperception, the thinking that I am separate from God. It is t ...

An Integral Teaching: A Enemy is One Whose Story We Have Not Heard: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 23rd, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

This cite below, which I saw today in a flier about a beautiful teaching event, sent to me by the organizer (a person of genuine depth and wisdom) is True, And Not True and the True Again. “AN ENEMY IS ONE WHOSE STORY WE HAVE NOT HEARD” 1 ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Five: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 23rd, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

The Grateful Dead and Getting Grounded The Grateful Dead’s music was possibly the modern muse that most invited us to spin out of our narrow lives and sense the world of ecstasy. I remember that after Jerry Garcia died, there was a stinging critiqu ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Four: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 22nd, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Dedicated to the healing of my son eytan and all those in need of healing. The Service of Ecstasy The service of ecstasy, teaches the Holy Seer of Lublin, is the work of loving. It is the ultimate perception which is able to tease out the divine poin ...

This is the Mantra: Nothing More, Nothing Less: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 21st, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

posted by Marc Gafni assistant WHEN THE POWER OF LOVE OVERCOMES THE LOVE OF POWER THE WORLD WILL KNOW PEACE. POWER COMES IN THE MOST CLEVER DISGUISES WE CLAIM THAT IT IS FOR THE SAKE OF THIS OR THAT HIGHER CAUSE BUT REALLY IT IS JUST OUR BROKENNESS T ...

WHEN THE POWER OF LOVE

Posted on: February 20th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 2 Comments

WHEN THE POWER OF LOVE OVERCOMES THE LOVE OF POWER THE WORLD WILL KNOW PEACE. POWER COMES IN THE MOST CLEVER DISGUISES WE CLAIM THAT IT IS FOR THE SAKE OF THIS OR THAT HIGHER CAUSE BUT REALLY IT IS JUST OUR BROKENNESS THAT WE PROJECT INTO THE SOMETIM ...

Jealousy: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 20th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Jealousy comes from not living in God. Jealousy is the profound dis-ease of sexual relationship. It is a reflection of our childish vulnerability to rejection or the withdrawal of love. It is for this reason that the response to jealousy can only be ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Three: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 19th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

This blog post and all the Torah that I am hugely privileged to share in these days, weeks and months, I offer for the full healing of my son Eytan who just been in a bad car accident in Israel. Thank God, though weak and bodily traumatized, he will ...

My Beautiful Son: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 18th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 4 Comments

As y’all know I rarely write blogs about my own life. Today is a rare exception. It has been a hard day. A very hard day. I just got off the phone with my son, Eytan. The one about whom I always tell the story about the Soul Print box. Both of ...